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  1. I have friends who watch porn & have explained them how bad it is and that’s what makes it haram for us. And this audio right here explains it all! JazakAllah khair!
    I wanted to ask a question. Most of the people (Muslims) that I know say they watch these kind of vids to only learn about sexual pleasures. They don’t want to blankly sit next to their spouse in future not knowing what to do. So is there any other good way to know about things? JazakAllah khair (:

    • There are a lot of guideline given by the prophet Muhammad PBUH regarding sexual enjoyments with one’s lawful spouse. You can read Like A Garment by Dr. Yassin Qhadi to know more.

      Pornographh shouldn’t be our teacher when it comes to sexual intimacy, because what they are teaching is nothing but perverted ideas of what sex is.

      Wael Ibrahim.

  2. How come something so destructive became so widespread? Indeed Shaytan is ever an enemy to mankind. I pray Allah (SWT) to free the entire Muslim ummah from the evil of pornography. Ameen.

  3. Really great interview. Alhumdulilah learnt a lot about the basic psychology of humans. That when our brain, which is already designed by Allah Ta’ala where the man can enjoy basic things the ‘halal’ way, is disturbed from it’s actual function, it just releases hormones without control. Didn’t knew that what makes a person so addicted to something. Very informative. I make dua that you and your team would accomplish in re-uniting people with their lives once again and help them lead a positive and healthier lives. Few people like you are really taking up the effort to help the suffurings. Jazak Allah hu Khairan.

  4. I just want to know some details on the physical problems and disadvantages of masturbating so that I can help some of my friends be awre of what they are doing.How can i ask these questions privately with mr.ibrahim

  5. Brothers,
    Few years back, I had a notion that I am not addicted to it and it is only the age… but I think it is indeed an addiction and it has increased year on year… Earlier I was in a position to avert it with my will-power but now it is getting difficult…
    Alhamdulillah that I am not seriously addicted but I think I am not less addicted….
    Earlier, the addiction used to get stimulated after accidentally looking at a lewd video or image now it gets stimulated after watching a regular Movie/serial for entertainment because of inappropriately dressed people in it.

    So this is the cycle… you end up dong immoral things… you admonish yourself to keep away from it, you practice this for few days, you keep up with yourselves till accidentally you stumble upon something which stimulates you. And then the cycle repeats.

    The cycle can be 1 week, 2 weeks, 1 month etc… but it will be regular, because you start where u left.
    If the time is more, then there are some some positive affects.

    The reason I am writing this is to open up eyes of many of us who think that they are not addicted.
    As a yardstick, you need to understand that there is no reason for you to get into this things, but if you are getting in, then you are addicted.

    Impacts:
    Apart from the obvious physical and psychological issues, there are many more problems
    1. Wasting time – imagine what all can you do if you use this time correctly
    2. Reduced level of iman – it constantly dips
    3. Getting away from your daily worship – a direct consequence of 2
    4. belittling your evil acts – you get used to things and say everybody does it and it is not major sin

    I have taken the below steps but even if you are not addicted, better take them
    1. Stopped watching TV – one of the biggest and common carrier of porn, this is where you start.
    2. Stopped watching YouTube/any other entertainment videos – there is a trick here, if you clear the history of you tube videos and only keep your history to Islamic videos, you wall will never see any lewd video
    but depending on your addiction, it might be advised to complete stop going to You-tube.
    3. Start a productive Islamic habit and get addictive to it
    Eg:
    Read more and more Quran – try doing your own Qirah
    Learn Quran Arabic
    Memorize the Quran
    Start working out
    4. Pray Tahajjud regularly – this will be the ultimate win
    5. Give charity for every act of immorality and increase the charity every time you repeat
    6. Practice istagfaar.

    May “Al-Ghafoor”, “Al-Ghaffar” , “Rubb” protect us and bring our positive change in the Ummah.
    Ameen

  6. I told myself to stop watch and I go good for 1-2 weeks and even a month but always come back to it show. How do I stop it permanently?

  7. JazakAllahu khair for this post. I have been struggling for years with this and the shiekh hit every point of escalating and not being hastily with one kind. Alhamdulillah its calmed down alot but it’s still a problem. When is the next interview,?

  8. Assalam Alaykum?

    My name is Omar from Zanzibar Tanzania in East Africa,
    From my heart i have been highly chocked up with this topic because it touches the youths life among the Muslims at large, we as the youths are highly affected by the porn and the bad thing is that we can not easily get out from it due to that our total life style has captured by the Internet and the phones which are the highest motivators of the pornography.

    I am very happy to hear it today, that it will be away forward for preventing my self from it but also reminding my fallow friends about it and how it affect us.

    However, i am asking for a favor if the Muslim Productive will have a special programs for organizing an international liberation of Muslims that will be organized though out the world, especially passing through schools and colleges where by my of the Muslim youths have forgotten their Islamic culture.

    I am deeply asking the programs like this to be conducted in my own country with the Productive Muslims.

    Thank you, JAZAKAMULLAH

  9. Alhamdulillah, it’s ramadhan and Allah guide me through this page and it’s very informative and helpful.
    jazak’Allah…

  10. The problems of muslim youth in a “muslim” country are no different than that of those in “non-muslim” countries. There is a concept of ‘anchoring’ in NLP which is very powerful and can help over come bad habits and instill good habit. do research.

  11. How wonderful it would be,if there was a brother interviewing the brother.As a matter of taking hayaa,higher.

  12. Would like to know the brothers blog address to subscribe to.And during the interview the sister needs to allow the brother explain what he needs to explain clearly, not all of us know what he is alluding to!

  13. AssalamuAlaikum, I hope that I may benefit from it someday. But since I’m hearing-impaired and depend on lip-reading it’s struggling to listen to mp3.

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