‘’You’re good for nothing.’’
‘’You can’t even do a simple thing like this?”
‘’Why can’t you be as good as (this person) or (that person)?”
Sometimes the words you hear from others...can cut really deep.
Not only that…but how it eventually breaks a person’s confidence and self-esteem in the long run.
And many times…it occurs way back.
A time when we’re young and impressionable.
A time when our belief systems and experiences were built on.
And as we grew up…we carry these experiences as we go through life.
Low confidence shows up in different situations:
You see…confidence is the essential building block for success in all areas of your life.
Whether it’s at home, at work, in your relationships, or social settings.
Confidence plays a critical role in how you see yourself and in how you behave.
It can affect your relationship with family and friends, job performance, your involvement in the community.
And can even hold you back from achieving your smallest to biggest goals in life.
Your absolute confidence and trust in Allah.
Believing and knowing that nothing can happen to you or hurt you unless it is by Allah’s Will.
“[Then] when you have decided on a course of action, put your trust in Allah: Allah loves those who put their trust in Him. If Allah helps you [believers], no one can overcome you. If he forsakes you, who else can help you? Believers should put their trust in Allah.” [The Qu’ran 3: 159-160]
Remember…that in whatever you’re trying to do, you’re never alone.
Knowing and remembering that you have Allah - is one of the primary keys to developing as an individual and raising confidence levels.
Many of us become unsure of how to improve our self-confidence at the workplace, at home, or during our day-to-day interactions.
And how it has held us back from being the best versions of ourselves…spiritually, physically, and emotionally.
That is why we are introducing….
Understanding the *spiritual-confidence paradigm shift
Discover how your mindset shapes your reality and learn how to create and maintain a positive mindset using wisdom from our Deen
Connect back to your essential self (true self) to live life with more presence, purpose, and deeper fulfillment
Release unhelpful core beliefs to remove any invisible barriers that may be holding you back
Align your intentions and goals with a bigger life vision and then create your personalized action plan to work towards closing the gap between where you are and where you want to be, one small step at a time
Find out why self-care is not a luxury but a necessity to live a confident, spiritual, and balanced life
Hafsah is the founder of The Confident Muslimah (www.theconfidentmuslimah.com), a spiritually centered coaching service that molds western psychology with Islamic foundations to transform professional and personal goals to achieve success in this life and the next.
With a laser-focus on progress and action-based mentorship, individuals learn how to step into their best version to enable them to give back, rebuild relationships with loved ones and contribute to the wider society and truly lead and leave a lasting legacy while attaining a deep sense of fulfillment.
Confidence coaching intertwined with the guidance from the Qur’an and Sunnah designed to propel you to be more, do more, and give more.
Hafsah is based in the UK with her husband and 3 children. She’s an adventurer at heart with a passion for sports. As well as being a confidence coach, she’s a public speaker, community worker, a volunteer lecturer at a revert center, and is an ongoing student of Islamic sciences studying under various Islamic teachers.
With years of experience in delivering talks, running workshops, and coaching people worldwide, she has a proven ability to help others step into their best version and rise above daily challenges with courage and gratitude.
She is most passionate about building the next generation of Muslim leaders who - like the companions - are confident, courageous, and Jannah-focused so they can take positive action towards their personal and professional goals with long-lasting confidence.
"I am able to show up to work with self-confidence and gratitude, being positive and overcoming both professional and personal challenges that have come my way. I am able to take risks and actions and speak up for myself or on behalf of my staff in a respectful manner, all while holding onto our Islamic adhab. I am better able to balance my life's priorities and demands, putting Allah (swt) first and maintaining balance with deen, work, family, friends, community, and my own self self care. This all requires self-confidence and knowing when to just say no. Training with Hafsah has given me focus, a positive mindset, and a can-do attitude. I am constantly growing and moving forward and highly recommend for each of you to start this journey and not look back. You won't be sorry you did."
- Shehnaz Chaudhri Group Engineer, Civil Engineer, P.E. USA
"And just after 2 sessions my mindset had completely shifted. From turning down work which involved public speaking I started saying yes and conquered this fear by doing my first ever live which reached nearly 500 people! I have turned a massive corner and cannot describe how wonderful it feels. The coaching and being part of Sister Hafsah’s Mastermind has been life changing. May Allah reward her in abundance in sha Allah Ameen"
- S. Begum, Event Organiser, UK
"Ma sha Allah, it’s been amazing. My anxiety has gone when I meet new people or in groups. She has built my confidence up, where I no longer care what others think, but rather about being myself! I have benefited from her vast knowledge on health and time management amongst many other topics. I would recommend Hafsah for anyone wanting to change their life."
- Tahrin, Teacher, UK
Hafsah’s confidence training program was a very inspirational experience for me. I became a more focused and confident person. Hafsah is a pleasant coach that helps you to develop a positive mindset through her rich and well-structured programme content. Working as a group provides a support structure for overcoming challenges, sharing experiences and learning from each other. I signed up for the programme because I wanted to improve my self-confidence. Alhamdulillah with the support of Hafsah and the group I was able to achieve it. Hafsah is a wonderful coach who puts in her best at coaching. She exhibits immense concern and care for your progress. The programme was interactive and well structured. I will recommend this programme for anyone seeking to improve her confidence and self-esteem.
- Nafisah, Computer Programmer, Nigeria
I gained confidence in my work and personal life, which in return has made me a very happy person. I thank Sister Hafsah for her amazing advice, patience and practical tips for me to be able to put the past behind me and move on. I would highly recommend anyone who is stuck in a rut or needs positive encouragement in any areas of their life. Alhumdulilah I feel so blessed to have been part of it.
- Shafqat, Accountant UK
Hafsah is a gem in our ummah, mashaAllah tabrakaAllah i have never felt such a safe, non-judgmental, caring person support me through this journey, remind us of our intentions and re-connecting us to our true purpose in life. This isn't a testimonial for the sake of writing one, I write this to anyone experiencing the same struggles I was before, hoping that you too take this life changing opportunity too inshaAllah.
- Ibtissam, Qatar