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The Marriage is in the Micro: Frustrations That Destroy, Bids and Rituals That Build

In the long story of a relationship, these small moments aren’t just filler, they’re the fabric. They are the tender brushstrokes that, over time, paint the masterpiece of emotional connection, safety, and enduring love. When done consistently, and with sincerity, they become acts of ibadah. Islam beautifully upholds this concept of consistent, intentional kindness. The Prophet ﷺ said, “The most beloved of deeds to Allah are those that are consistent, even if small.” (Bukhari) This reflects the divine wisdom that it’s not grand romantic gestures that sustain love, but the daily, steady work of tending to one another’s hearts.

Z Zulekha Shakoor Rajani

Safar 11, 1447 AH ·8 min

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When You Want to Do Good But Can’t

‘Ajz is often translated as “deficiency” or “incapacity,” but these translations barely capture what this feeling really means. It’s not kasal (laziness); when you’re lazy, you want to do something but don’t feel like it. ‘Ajz is when you want to act but feel utterly powerless to do so, whether due to personal circumstances (lack of money, time, resources) or external barriers (politics, distance, systemic limitations).

Mohammed Faris · Muharram 26, 1447 AH · 3 min

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Lessons from a Dying Parent

To Allah belongs what He takes, and to Him belongs what He gives, and everything has its time. When someone dies, we often reflect on their legacy and the life lessons they parted with us. And alhamdulillah, I learned so much from my dad – especially his mannerisms and kind conduct with people. However, in this article, I wanted to reflect on his death. I learned so much in this last year from him and the dying process that I want to capture these lessons firstly for myself and my family and secondly impart beneficial knowledge to any child or caregiver as they care for a dying parent, spouse, relative, or friend:

Mohammed Faris · Shaʻban 14, 1445 AH · 19 min