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  1. Beautiful article!
    I think that the tip I find most effective is promote the grettjng of peace because when you Peace Be Upin You, you should say it with the intention if actually hoping that they are in a state of peace and everything is well with them. A perfect way to show love and care!
    Jzk and Assalmualaikum💖💖💖

    • Walekum Assalam Yumna!
      I highly appreciate your thoughtful comment, it definitely means a lot sister!
      May Allah swt bless you abundantly, Ameen.
      Jazakallah <3

  2. Pray for others in their absence. If we love some one make dua for them. You will feel good by doing so.

    • I totally agree with you Mazlinda, praying for someone secretly creates many positive feelings.
      Jazakllah, for dropping your beautiful comment.
      May Allah bless you prolifically!

    • Jazakallah Fatima, I am grateful you are here to read it <3
      May Allah fill your days with extreme joy, Ameen!

  3. A very beautiful and well planned article. I’ve learned a lot from this article. Honestly every point I’ve found here is very touching. May Allah bless you with unlimited mercy and blessings. I love you for the sake of Allah.

    • Abbas, I am thankful as you found it beautiful and touchy!
      The dua means sooo much to me, seriously!
      May Allah swt fill your life with abundant happiness and prosperity, Ameen and Jazakallah!

  4. I really feel inspired and down the line I believe that more than religion , mazhab Allah swt likes intentions, good deeds ,love , peace ,forgiveness and all deeds to become a good human being rather than being just a Muslim

  5. Shukran so much for these inspirational e-mails. It’s really given me a new way of wanting to love others purely for the sake of Allah.

    • Yusraa I am so much pleased to have you over here!
      Reading your comments and feedback’s makes me feel inspired <3
      Jazakallah, beautiful sister, for making my day even more beautiful!
      May Allah make your path to Jannah very easy and shower his blessings on you prolifically! Ameen.

  6. Alhamdulillah for this article. Really helps me at the moment to remind me about loving oneself and others for the sake of Allah. I love all the tips and insyaAllah will follow them religiously. Syukran

    • Halimah, you just made my day with your lovely comment <3
      May Allah make us all tread on the path to Jannah, Ameen!
      Jazakallah Sister!

  7. great thanks tell people the importance f prayer on time btter in congreation in masjid the impoance of jummaha and importance of beeing in time for starting with semon i see brothers coming ven at the end of 4th rakkaha? best of luck allaha will guide egads YF,

  8. mashallah jzk keyran for great reminder. For loving oneself, I found ‘seeking knowledge tip’ very helpful and motivating. As for loving others for the sake of Allah ‘ making du’aa in their absence and learning about others life’ seemed quite effective way. Another reminder i would like to add is that, on the day of judgment there will be 7 people whom will be sitting under the shed of Allah when there is no shed except His. among that group is those who loved one another for the sake of Allah!

    • Jazakallah Umm- aliyah!
      Yesss sister, that is a very effective tip which I forgot to add,
      But thank you so very much for the productive reminder.
      May Allah fill your life with extreme happiness and joy <3

  9. Asalam Alykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh,
    Alhamdulillah this is a very good article, i personally have let my family know that i love them, so am going to improve on that.
    jazakallahu khair.

  10. Assalamaleikum
    JazakAllah khair. For this wonderful article
    It really made a difference and made my day more beautiful. Thanx alot for sharing.
    Stay happy and stay blessed . :)

  11. Assalamu Alaikum. Shukraan Jazeelan for the inspirational article. The whole article was inspiring to me. It made me think of how patient and understanding I am of people around me.

    • Jazakallah Hanufa for the beautiful words!
      May Allah swt shower his blessings on you and your family, Ameen!

  12. This paragraph really touched me: “Sometimes the reason we can’t forgive is that we don’t see our own flaws. We spend our lives holding onto the wrongs others have done to us, but we don’t see all the wrongs we have also done to others.”

  13. Assalamu alaikum warahmathullahi wabarakathuhu,, ma shaa Allah, A nice article…
    Jazakallahu khair
    Sometimes i feel that my best friend is not caring me or treating me as i do,so,i felt sad and become upset for several days…
    Why do i feel so? My love to my best friend is not for the sake of Almighty….

    • Walekum Assalam Fathima! How glad I am to see such a wonderful comment<3 and I am very thankful that you asked me a question, Jazakallah!
      Sometimes we often react to things very fast, and undoubtedly, hastiness is always from Shaitaan. Whenever there are times when you feel upset, supplicate for your best friend and try making excuses for her even if you are feeling the worst. If these tips does not work, pray two rakkah, and ask Allah to bestow patience and instill positive feelings about her. This will perpetuate the " true love" just for Allah swt.
      If you, dear sister, have any further questions always feel free to contact me, Inshallah I will always be there to help you!
      Jazakallah once again Fathima! May Allah bless you immensely, Ameen <3

    • Yesss Fouzia!
      With all those motivation and great spirits, climb up and up and up! Inshallah!
      Jazakallah for your comment!
      May Allah bless you, Ameen!

    • Walekum assalam brother,
      Jazakllah for the amazing opportunity, Inshallah I will contribute to your blog too!
      Thank you so much for the motivating comment!
      May Allah bless you abundantly!

  14. Beautiful indeed Maa Shaa Allah. May Allah reward you abundantly for sharing such beneficial knowledge to us. 😍 The part where you mentioned on writing down what I have achieved during the day at night made me so excited. As I realised that by things that I have achieved, I will more likely to focus on things that I havent achieved in order to improve myself. I cant wait to start writing them down and to in shaa Allah see the change in me.
    BarakAllahu feeki brother. May Allah grant u Jannatul Firdaus❤️

    • Fathini, every sentence you wrote, made me so much HAPPPYY!
      I am blessed to have you over here! Your duas, sister, is beautiful, Mahsallah!
      May Allah reward you the highest position in the dunya as well as the hereafter!

  15. Assalamualaikum. Thank you so much for such a great reminder. I always in doubt because peolpe say that love yourself and others for the sake of Allah. I kept asking myself how to accomplish it but this article has answered my questions. Looking forwards for the next chapter. Thanks again.

    • Walekum asslam sister,
      Nia CS, Alhamdulilah you found it beneficial and it infuses me with abundant joy! Inshallah I will be writing more,
      Jazakallah dear sister
      May Allah bless you with happiness! Ameen<3

  16. Climbing up the ladder go up up up and letting others know that you love them. It creates magic. Otherwise the whole article is wonderful and very educative. It has watered my soul.

  17. Assalam-o-alikum, I like the answer of your sister , ” I love myself very much.” If you are having ill-feeling, jealousy etc for others it means you are not loving your ownself. Because all negative feelings generate poison in human body so consequently you are damaging your own self. So “I love myself very much” may be translated in another way having meaning that I donot have ill feelings for others.

    Jizakil Allah Khair for the wonder article.

    • Walekum Assalam Shakeela!
      I totally agree with you, the more positive our thoughts become the more we see goodness in others.
      I am thankful for the inspirational comment sister!
      May Allah swt reward you with the best, in this life as well as the hereafter, Ameen <3

  18. Wow!!!……This is really God-sent
    Just what I needed at the right time cos av been having many problems lately and reading this article just solved one of them.
    I pray Allah bless the writer and keep increasing her in beneficial knowledge and understanding.

    • Jazakallah Aisha for all those humble words!
      I really hope whatever your troubles are, may Allah swt make them easy for you Ameen. Don’t you worry sister, Inshallah everything will be good! Stay patient and you will see the fruitful rewards, Inshallah!
      May Allah swt solve all your problems and instill happiness and peace in your life! Ameen <3

  19. JazakALLAAH Khair,

    Very nicely presented, MashaALLAAH, May ALLAAH SWT accept your efforts and save your from harm, aameen

    Best part for me was the saying of the Messenger SAWS “By Him in Whose Hand is my life! You will not enter Jannah until you believe, and you will not believe until you love one another. Shall I inform you of something which, if you do, you will love one another? Promote greetings amongst yourselves.” [Jami` at-Tirmidhi]

  20. As ALLAH SWT loves human more than he love him self so , following the above suggestions can make human’s attitude towards humanity for the sake of ALLAH make better ! JAZAKALLAH !

  21. Assalam o Alaikum sister Hafsa

    A very informative and useful piece. We need writers like you to contribute and present the true image of Islam to the world. I ran an online Quran academy and maintain a blog. I am enthusiastic about writing articles on Quran, Islam and Islamic history to benefit Muslims as well as non Muslims. I will be really glad if you can contribute an article to my blog.

  22. Salam, thank you for your post it has made it very clear for me I was always confused as to how am I supposed to love a fellow Muslim for the sake of Allah. I have a question though, suppose I have a friend circle and I am not that fond of one or two members of this circle but I try to be descrete abut this, I try not to ignore them and greet them with the usual polite greetings and small talk, give them equal gifts whenever I buy anything for the circle etc. Does that count as loving a fellow Muslim for the sake of Allah? What I am asking is if you don’t particularly like someone but are polite and corteous to them because you don’t want to be rude for the sake of Allah does that count as well?