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  1. May Allah grant you kingdom in this world that will be unmatched till judgement day. Make you utilize it to serve Him. May Allah make you the happiest wealthiest strongest most wise person from the time you read this till judgement day aaaaand may your success be unheard of.

    • I am overwhelmed by the generosity of this dua’!! Subhan Allah. What a blessing to receive such kindness and generosity! May Allah [swt] reward you with everything that pleases your heart in this world and the next! Ameen.

  2. Jazakallahu Khairan! I prayed Allah will increases your knowledge . An article that worth a million advices, which InshaAllah will help you overcomes every situation and save a body from hell fire.

  3. JazakaAllahu khair.
    It is, as if Allah swt answered me today through this article :)
    Alhamdulillah for everything! May Allah (swt) count us to his thankful servants. amin.

  4. Jazakallah Khair for the article which is full of precious advice. This article has really motivated me and certainly others too in one way or the other. Thanks.

    • AlhamdulAllah. Jazaki Allahu Khairan Sister Rehana for this feedback. I’m really happy you’ve been motivated, alhamdulAllah.

  5. so blessed upon reading this blessed article..may Allah bless us all..
    Wajazakallahu khairan fiddunya wal akhirah..wassalamu alykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuho.,

    • Walaykum AsSalam waRahmat Allah wa Barakatu. Jazakum Allahu khairan for the precious dua’! AlhamdulAllah that you benefited. May Allah [swt] benefit you always with knowledge and all that which is good and pure.

  6. Assalamu Alaikum,
    Jazkhillah khair for such an apt and deep article. Subhanallah! how TRUE patience translates into gratitude to our Beloved Creator (SWT). I have learnt that true patience is a state that in the times of trials, you are at peace and very contented knowing that Allah is with you all the way. When the trials are over, the next depth is profound gratitude for what you’ve found from your Lord; for bringing you to the point that you are in your life and allowing you to remember Him and be grateful to Him. All in all, if you are able to patient and content in times of trials and be grateful when its over, count yourself most blessed by the Most Merciful.
    Also, I think having the material things we covet is the greatest of trials in life; it breeds all the vices that evokes Allah’s wrath. Thus, one has to continuously seek refuge from what we own so it doesn’t end up destroying the bond we have nurtured with Al-Wadud (The Most Loving).

    • True, masha’Allah. Great reflections. May Allah reward you and benefit you with this knowledge. AlhamdulAllah.

  7. Jazakum Allahu Khayran! Well thought and written! I really needed to hear this! Subhan Allah wa bihamdih, Subhan Allah Alatheem! I would like to excuse you to share some of your understanding about patience with the people surrounding me and I really liked the story of the man blessed with wisdom! May Allah help us all have a better attitude towards everything that He bestows upon us. Amen!

    • Yes, please, share it with the people around you and anyone you think needs this. May Allah [swt] reward you and continue you to increase you in knowledge and wisdom and desire to help those around you. Ameen.

  8. Masha Allah you are gifted writer dear Sister. Reading this and feeling the peace and contentment from the precious reminders you so eloquently wrote was yet another of the priceless and countless blessings we have be given every minute of every day from Allah Subhana Wa Ta’ala … BarakAllahu Feeki

    • Jazaki Allahu khairan for your very kind words. AlhamdulAllah who benefited you and all of us. Barak Allahu Feeki!

  9. Masha Allah dear Sis. in Islam , I wish every Scholar Muslim to keep on reminding the Ummahat Al Islam on such important Issues as you greatly did and jazaki Allahu kheirann.

  10. Alhamdulillah! This is a well researched article and highly beneficial to all Muslim brothers. May Allah reward your efforts and bless you abundantly. Keep the good work sister Dina.

    • AlhamdulAllah indeed. May Allah [swt] benefit everyone. Thank you very much. Jazak Allah Khair.

  11. Excellent article! May Allah bless you with more knowledge, aameen. this article enlightened my mind and soul, alhamdulillah!

  12. Sister Dina, I feel truly blessed to have just read your article! MashAllah MashAllah this is absolutely one of the best articles I have ever read on Productive Muslim. You really get to the heart of the matter–that we are truly blessed to be Muslims in the first place, on the path of connecting with Allah (swt). May Allah (swt) reward you abundantly for inspiring all of us!

    • Sister Sheima, I’m really honored to receive your heartfelt comment! May Allah enlighten your heart and mind with wisdom and faith always, and bring your way everything that benefits you. Barak Allahu Feeki!

  13. El salam Alaikom sister, this piece was beautifully written by you. El hamd Lellah i’ve benefited a lot from this. i was recently struggling with contentment, and was getting involved with haram things that i had once given up just because i felt ungrateful to the rule of Allah. El hamd Lellah this came at a time of need, may Allah grant you and the rest of muslims wisdom and peace so as to always accept his rule. Jazaky Allah Khairan, sister :)

    • Sister Muslimah, I’m very happy to receive your comment. AlhamdulAllah, I’m very grateful to Allah [swt] that He brought to you something that helps reconnect you with Him. The Generosity, Patience and Help that Allah [swt] continues to show us again and again is an unmatched blessing, wAllahi. This requires a huge ‘AlhamdulAllah’! :) Please Sr. Muslimah, never give up. Allah never gives up on us. May He always keep you protected and honored and grant you from all the halal that suffices you and keep you content. Ameen. :)

  14. Thank you Dear Sister Dina, for a well thought out, organized and referenced article. Glad to see that this is a “Part 1” so you will plan to have more articles that you will write. The topic is relevant to many Muslims all over the world. May Allah reward you with contentment and wisdom to write more articles to benefit others. I live in a city where there are not many Muslims. Reading articles on the internet like yours is very helpful.

    • AlhamdulAllah, Sr. Colleen. I’m truly happy that Allah [swt] brought what you need your way to benefit you and give you the help you need. AlhamdulAllah. Jazaki Allahu Khairan for your precious words. Yes, insha’Allah, there will be a couple more articles to come dealing with the same topic. May Allah [swt] benefit you and give you the knowledge, peace, contentment, solace and reassurance you need to have a satisfied mind and heart always. Ameen.

  15. Jazakallahu khayran for the reminder . I particularly liked the article the way it was presented it spoke to me as a person and made me reflect on the infinite blessings from My Creator.

  16. Assalamu alikum warahmatullahi wabarkatahu.Thanks for the article, madam. It really matches aptly with my presennt situation and gives me soothing relief and not to loose confidence, hope in Allah (SWT). Some words and their link with Quranic verses are really eye opening. This article evokes me to brush up my faith and ropel pincrease my attachment with ALLAH (SWT).


    • This is great to know. AlhamdulAllah. May Allah [swt] bestow upon us all what helps us on our path to Him. W’yakum.

  17. jazakallahu khair sister, this is really an eye opener for us to be steadfast and understand that you have to always thank Allah (SWT) for all the blessings we have encountered, Ma Shaa Allah

  18. جزاك الله كل خير في انتظار المذيد من مقالاتك الشيقه .ارجو ان ترشدونا علي خطوات عمليه لاقتناء صفه الصبر لمن لديه ابتلاء في حياته ، وهل الإلحاح في الدعاء ينفي الصبر.

    • جزانا وإياكم. بارك الله فيك. بالنسبة لسؤالك عن الصبر فيمكنك ان شاء الله ان تلقي نظرة على الموضوعات التالية لأن بها اجابات وافكار عديدة قد تساعدك باذن الله .

      فيما يتعلق بالالحاح في الدعاء، لاشك ان علينا دائما ان نلح على الله سبحانه وتعالى في الدعاء، فمن لنا سواه! لكن علينا ايضا ان لا نستعجل الاجابة لأن الله وحده هو العليم البصير الحكيم وهو وحده الذي يعلم التوقيت الأنسب لاجابة الدعاء. “وَعَسَىٰ أَن تَكْرَهُوا شَيْئًا وَهُوَ خَيْرٌ لَّكُمْ ۖ وَعَسَىٰ أَن تُحِبُّوا شَيْئًا وَهُوَ شَرٌّ لَّكُمْ ۗ وَاللَّهُ يَعْلَمُ وَأَنتُمْ لَا تَعْلَمُونَ” (البقرة 216)

      “فَعَسَىٰ أَن تَكْرَهُوا شَيْئًا وَيَجْعَلَ اللَّهُ فِيهِ خَيْرًا كَثِيرًا” (النساء 19)

      لذلك نحن نقوم بالدعاء وفي نفس الوقت يجب أن نوقن بأن الله سبحانه وتعالى سيجيب الدعاء في الوقت الأنسب وبالأسلوب الأنسب ، وعسى ان يكون تأخر امر ما هو عين الرحمة وعين الاجابة والكرم من الله فعساه دفع بلاءا كان سيحدث من خلال هذا الشىء الذي نرجوه. خلاصة الأمر أختي الحبيبة، كل ما نتمناه وكل ما قد نناله في هذه الدنيا لن يساوي شىء مثل حسن التقرب من الله وحسن عبادته وطلب عونه وقربه ورضاه ورحمته… وهذا مبلغ ما قد نحصل عليه في هذه الدنيا… أي شىء اخر قد يكون نعمة في أول الامر ولكن سرعان ما ينقلب الى نقمة اذا لم يوجه في طلب الله ومعرفته وعبادته ، ولذلك فالأولى ان نطلب الله ولا نمل من طلب ما نريد وعلينا ان نطلب حبه هو ذاته ورضاه وقربه قبل اي شىء، وذلك باذن الله سيصلح كل شىء.

  19. Jazakallahu khair my beautiful sister in lslam. May Allah increase your knowledge. this is my first time of reading and subscribing to this and you have made my day. God bless you.

    • Jazana w’yakuk my beautiful sister. Barak Allahu Feeki, and you have made my day with your beautiful comment and kind words. AlhamdulAllah who benefitted you and me.

  20. Mashaallah, quite enlightening and perfect understanding, it made me crystal clear the main purpose of our life in this world. May Allah SWT bless you with the best in this world and hereafter – Aameen.

    • AlhamdulAllah. I’m eternally grateful to Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala who gave you this clarity. AlhamdulAllah.

  21. Amazing article. I read it yesterday, and had to read it again today. Please write more articles like this.
    It is well written, easy to understand, and completely refreshing. JazakAllahu khair.

  22. JazakAllah Khair and thank you for putting the time and effort to write this article. It was really beautiful and eye opening!

  23. Alhamdulilahi, this article came at the right time, it really matches my present situation, jazakumullahu khairan, am expecting the part 2.

  24. Can you please post a dua asking Allah to grant us wisdom?
    MashaAllah such a productive article n I’m blessed to read it n it wud b a blessing too if I got to apply this in my sinful life.

    • My sister/brother, please don’t call yourself ‘lost’. You are not lost at all, I promise. You have a heart that is obviously humble and you clearly have a desire to develop and grow and apply all that is good and pure in your life. AlhamdulAllah, you are ‘blessed’, you are not ‘lost’. :)

      So long as you are seeking Allah [swt], and your heart is directed to Him and you ask for His guidance and forgiveness and try as much as you can… then alhamdulAllah, this is a blessing.

      I want to remind you of this:

      “Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, “Allah, the Exalted, has said: ‘O son of adam, I forgive you as long as you pray to Me and hope for My forgiveness, whatever sins you have committed. O son of ‘Adam, I do not care if your sins reach the height of the heaven, then you ask for my forgiveness, I would forgive you. O son of ‘Adam, if you come to Me with an earth load of sins, and meet Me associating nothing to Me, I would match it with an earthload of forgiveness.”‘
      [At- Tirmidhi].

      How can you give up after reading this?

      And I want to remind you of this:

      “Say, “O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful.” [Qur’an: Chapter 39, Verse 53]

      So, have hope, have hope, have hope. AlhamdulAllah, Allah led you to read something that is beneficial to you and encouraged you to be better, so alhamdulAllah, He wants goodness for you, and He is helping you and He is Near, so Near to you! So, ask Him directly for all what you want. Ask Him in whatever language and whatever way you want. Just ask sincerely and He will respond. I promise.

      Now, for the wisdom dua’, I would suggest you directly ask Allah to grant you wisdom, as simple as that, but be honest, and persistent and sincere, and most definitely Allah will help.

      If you want to follow the blessed prophet’s beautiful dua’s, then this is one of them:

      It was narrated from Umm Salamah that when the Prophet (ﷺ) performed the Subh (morning prayer), while he said the Salam, he would say:

      ‘Allahumma inni as’aluka ‘ilman nafi’an, wa rizqan tayyiban, wa ‘amalan mutaqabbalan (O Allah, I ask You for beneficial knowledge, goodly provision and acceptable deeds).’”
      This is a beautiful dua’. Insha’Allah this will help.

      Just direct your heart to Allah [subhanahu wa ta’ala] ask for His forgiveness, ask Him to help you be better for yourself and for everyone around you, ask Him to help you follow the beautiful teachings of His Messenger Muhammad [peace and blessings upon him], ask Him to grant you the best in this world and the next, insha’Allah… just you asking and having this open heart dialogue with Him is an immense blessing. And He will most definitely Help you insha’Allah!

      “And when My servants ask you, [O Muhammad], concerning Me – indeed I am near. I respond to the invocation of the supplicant when he calls upon Me. So let them respond to Me [by obedience] and believe in Me that they may be [rightly] guided.” [Qur’an: Chapter 2, Verse 186]


      Salam alaykum.

  25. Assalaamu alaikum dear sister. A kind reminder to build up our imaan.May Allah azza wa jalla bless you.

  26. Asakm sr.mashaAllah,you have been gifted with such a great blessing.Alhamdulillah,you have a wonderful way of writing.please pray for me .

    • My sister, I will pray for you insha’Allah, and I want to remind both of us of this beautiful dua’ that Prophet Muhammad [peace and blessings upon him] taught us:

      “(O Allah, I ask You for all that is good, in this world and in the Hereafter, what I know and what I do not know. O Allah, I seek refuge with You from all evil, in this world and in the Hereafter, what I know and what I do not know. O Allah, I ask You for the good that Your slave and Prophet has asked You for, and I seek refuge with You from the evil from which Your slave and Prophet sought refuge. O Allah, I ask You for Paradise and for that which brings one closer to it, in word and deed, and I seek refuge in You from Hell and from that which brings one closer to it, in word and deed. And I ask You to make every decree that You decree concerning me good).”

  27. Assalamu alikum sister ,very very inspiring and beneficial article,alhumdullilah i am really so much blessed by allah that i am reading this article and feeling peace in my heart and this is exactly blessing of allah.may allah give u immence rewards and guide us all and our children and our muslim ummah.Waiting for the next part of this topic.jazakallah khairan .May allah protect us from evry harm and evil.

  28. MASHA-ALLAH! JazakAllahu khair for sharing these wonderful tips :) Sister Dina, I think it would be nice if you wrote an article on “How A Muslim Should Deal With Difficult Types Of People” and “How To Avoid Materialism As A Muslim”? May Allah the Almighty bless you and your beautiful writing skills and generosity to share your advice. Ameen. Love you for Allah’s sake, sister Dina.
    Wasalaam from the Philippines :)

    • What a beautiful, heartfelt comment! Subhan Allah! “And [Allah] brought together their hearts. If you had spent all that is in the earth, you could not have brought their hearts together; but Allah brought them together. Indeed, He is Exalted in Might and Wise.” (Qur’an. 8: 63)

      Very grateful to Allah [subhanahu wa ta’ala] who brings together the hearts of all those who believe in Him and seek Him. Indeed no one can place such love and compassion and closeness in our hearts towards one another like He does, and it is all for Him and because of Him.

      Truly Allahu Akbar!

      I love you too, my dearest sister, for the sake of Allah! Barak Allahu Feeki!

      And, insha’Allah, your valuable suggestion will be discussed among the team and we will try to find the best qualified authors to handle them insha’Allah so that we can all benefit.

      Jazaki Allahu Khairan in this life and the next! Ameen.

  29. Alhamdulilah for coming across this beautiful, well chosen and written article. Alhamdulilah it came in the best time. In sha Allah you’ll bring more inspirational and motivating articles that help us to reexamine our emotional and mental state. Alhamdulilah for everything, my heart is content and in sha Allah I will have these words engraved in my mind to always reflect upon.

    Jazak Allah khair :)

    • Sister, the last couple of lines in your comment truly gave me so much happiness. Barak Allahu Feek! I pray you always find the peace and contentment you need. AlhamdulAllah for everything He teaches us.

  30. Assalaamu’alaykum wr wb sister,

    jazaakillaahu khayra for your words my beloved sister. I’m going through a tough time, alhamdulillaah and reading your article has surely made me feel at ease, and change my whole perception of the situation. Reminds me of the hadeeth : ‘Whosoever relieves from a believer some grief pertaining to this world, Allah will relieve from him some grief pertaining to the Hereafter….’ I ask Allaah to grant the whole productive muslim team jannaatul firdaws, and to relieve each and every person who works for this team, relief on the Day, allaahumma aameen.

  31. Assalaamu’alaykum wr wb sister,

    jazaakillaahu khayra for your words my beloved sister. I’m going through a tough time, alhamdulillaah and reading your article has surely made me feel at ease, and change my whole perception of the situation. Reminds me of the hadeeth : ‘Whosoever relieves from a believer some grief pertaining to this world, Allah will relieve from him some grief pertaining to the Hereafter….’ I ask Allaah to grant the whole productive muslim team jannaatul firdaws, and to relieve each and every person who works for this team, relief on the Day, allaahumma aameen.

    Sister A.A

    • Sister A.A, cannot thank you enough for your beautiful and heart warming comment and dua. I ask Allah to reward you immensely for this generous dua. AlhamdulAllah and Barak Allahu Feeki, and May Allah always bring you the ease and relief that you need. Ameen.

  32. MashaAllah what an Article! Really thought provoking and changed my persective about life. This was something I needed badly. May Allah reward u immensly for this Dina :)

    • Jazaki Allahu Khair, Syeda Z, for your dua. It is indeed the most beautiful gift one can receive. Barak Allahu Feek. AlhamdulAllah that you found what you needed. All praise is due to Allah. AlhamdulAllah.

  33. Now I feel so bleesed and I am sure that (insha Allah) this lesson-filled piece who go a long way in making so many other readers have a sense of blessedness & self-worth and would in turn praise Allah!

    Jazakallahu khair for this wonderful article.

  34. Assalomu Alaykum

    Reading this article was come to conclusion being the same rank with those who are without nafs needed to be patient…
    but being constant in this rank above InshaAllah!

    Thanks, bless You Allah Almighty the Most High

  35. Asmlkm wrhmt wbrt Sister Dina Mohammed Basiony
    An amazing writeup from a person in a maqam of deep spiritual understanding. INSYALLAH I pray ALLAH open his doors of hikmah to you and all of us to achieve contentment through trials and tribulations and appreciate that to him we belog and to him we are returning

  36. BismillahiRahmaniRaheem
    aslaamualikum wa ramatualahi wa barakatuhu, dear sister thank you for such a great article. may Allah reward you! I came across this as im in search for answers which will satisfy my hunger for love of my Raab and will guide me to be more close to my Raab inshAllah may allah bless me with what my heart is looking for…ameen

  37. When I happen to come across such beautiful motivating words like this one I really feel that this is also a part of blessing from Allah subhana ta’ala to help me to be steadfast in my faith.

  38. Very inspiring jazakumullahu bikhair may Allah make it a form of sadaqatul jariya and may he accept it from all of us.

  39. Jazakillah sister… Alhamdulillah i feel so relaxed after reading this. I was 😥😥😥 a while before reading this article, thinking how things don’t go the right way. I did not thank Allah SWT for the blessings HE had given me. I cried over what i dont have… Allah loves me soo much , that HE made me read this article…InShaAllah il try to practice patience to the max.. Once again Jazakillah sister… May Almighty Allah give u and your family a highest place in Jennathul Firdaus.. Aameen