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  1. ma’shallah nice topic.. if people can evaluate things with their real value(the hereafter measurement) life will be much easier yet more useful and productive

    قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم: (عجبا لأمر المؤمن إن أمره كله خير وليس ذاك لأحد إلا للمؤمن ، إن أصابته سراء شكر فكان خيرا له وإن أصابته ضراء صبر فكان خيرا له)

  2. very useful
    your blogs are great.. i started to check this web almost daily.

    thank you and keep up the amazing effort

  3. Jazakum Allahu Khairan,

    This is very meaningful and a quick means of ascertaining true value in life.

    – a Muslim

  4. Great advice, Mashā’Allāh. I used to feel a bit annoyed when I would be in the middle of feeling really happy and that euphoria would suddenly disappear as I’d realize it wouldn’t be there forever. However, this article helped me to understand that this may actually be a beneficial feeling :)

  5. This is a fantastic method which elaborates on not seeking short term happiness or contentment but instead delves in the more important long term growth and happiness and benefit for the dunya and more importantly the Akhirah. Alhamdullilallah. 

  6. very creative masha’Allah….the title caught my attention on fb and i had to read it…jzk for sharing, this really helps with all kinds of emotions and situations, including extreme boredom lol!

  7. Intertwining the profound loss with the next reality fram can provide consolation, by thinking that all one lost would be redeemed in the life hereafter! However, this is all about your mental calm, you can get it in thousand of different ways.
    If we just lead the life by equating profit/loss, than that would be frivolous! The core philosphy of relegion based on love of Creator, that whatever, one should do or avoid is just for the love of Allah, even one incur loss!
    Although, eventual purpose for human specie is to get mental calm, nevertheless, it couldn’t be achieved directly, even if one does, that would be very short term.
    As for as mode of thinking is concerned, this is interesting.

  8. this was an… intense… article. It was a refreshing idea and a brilliant perspective! I never thought about it like that, at least not consciously. It’s almost bitter-sweet, but it helps you keep your emotions in check. Sometimes though, you wish you could just stay in the moment, you know like an Imaan-high for example. But experience teaches you that things don’t last, so it’s good to be prepared!

    Glad I came across this article, alhmadulillah! God bless us all!

  9. Amazing article..mashAllah..jazakAllahu khayran katheeran..the fast forward technique has become my favorite technique as it helps me deal with everything in life with contentment. Alhumdulillah!