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    • You’re more than welcome, Sister Nadine. AlhamdulAllah! I am immensely grateful to Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) that He helped you get through your moment of difficulty. May Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) cure your heart always. Ameen.

    • As Salaam Alaikum… Very beautiful and honestly speaking article. Much needed. My Allah(SWT) continue to bless you all as you continue to reach out and help others. Ameen… Jazakum Al;lahu Khairn

  1. Alhamdulillah… this is very good articel. Iya like you have me a glass of water in the desert.
    Remind me for many other thing i forgot.
    Like the sky above, for instance :-)

    Very good. And thank you

  2. Perfect. It’s very true that there is hope. Hope is love for Allah. The more you are tried and tested, the more you are blessed. Patience, perseverance and prayers. This is the magic wand.
    Forwarded information is very refreshing and increases hope.

    • Jazana w’yakum. Insha’Allah part 3 will be coming soon. May Allah benefit us always with His Knowledge that brings peace and contentment to the heart.

  3. It is amazing that I read this article while I am facing the biggest problem in my life at the moment. I can feel what the writer means in her article. Thank you for a very inspiring article.

    • AlhamdulAllah! What a blessing! May Allah always be in your aid, relieving every distress. How Generous and Kind He is, wAllah. AlhamdulAllah.

  4. You Nailed it ! This articel is so helpful and so well written that I cannot even express how wonderful I found it and felt after reading it . Hats off to you Dina !!! Keep it comming ! May Allah give you alot of jazaa .Ameen and also to the whole productive Muslims team !

    • What a beautiful, heartfelt and generous comment! May Allah bless your kindness and sound heart! Barak Allahu Feekum.

  5. I remember this quote that “the moment we understand that Allah’s decision is always in our best interest, everything will start to make sense.”

    There is no such thing as coincidence, indeed Allah knows what is best for us :)

    • TRUE! Masha’Allah, what a beautiful realization! THIS genuinely is the kind of realization that comforts the heart and mind and allows the person to find peace and rest. Jazaki Allahu Khairan, Sr. Aqilah!

  6. I really benefit from it, And I did the same listing from verses of the holy Qur’an ,And I fell happy and grateful for Allah for sending his prophet mohammed (S.A.W) with Qur’an. Indeed Qur’an is heeling and a guidance for the belivers

    • Absolutely true. AlhamdulAllah for the blessing of the Qur’an and the Beautiful Messenger ( may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him).

  7. Jazakallah khair, it was so enlightening and beneficial! Alhamdulillah for educating us and may Allah’s peace and blessings be upon you always, aameen!

  8. I came across this article in my inbox just now and Subhanallah it came at a time when I was very frustrated and had lost my patience with a situation. Just reading the gentle advice has softened my heart and made me feel so much better. It’s is uplifting and practical advice that we can follow straight away. Thanks so much for this. May Allah reward u all. Duas x

  9. Wonderfully said….. will surely practice these ideas and inshah Allah everyone will find peace and solace…. Ameen

    • Ameen ya Rab! May Allah make you among those He mentioned in this ayah:

      “Who listen to speech and follow the best of it. Those are the ones Allah has guided, and those are people of understanding.” [Qur’an: Chapter 39, Verse 18]

  10. Sister Ma Shaa Allah. This article was very beneficial for me. I will make dua’ for you and btw i also have origins in Basion. Jasakm Allah Kyra.

  11. Al-Hamdulillah once again you have dealt with a common problem with a beautiful article. May ALLAH( swt) accept it & reward you in this world and hereafter.

  12. I really enjoyed this article, it addressed what and how I am feeling at the moment.

    I will certainly read it again when I need to.

    • Allah! I’m so happy and grateful to know that! Allah helps us in so many ways. SubhanAllah. AlhamdulAllah.

  13. JazakAllah so beautifully written and I hope all those including me are in difficult situation and seeking some solution Dina has provided the path on which we have to walk and will get calmess and positivity.May Allah help all of us and give us strength to be on the path which is liked by Allah. Ameen

    • Barak Allahu Feek! Indeed Allah provided all of us with a beautiful path that brings sustianable comfort to the heart through The Qur’an and beautiful sunnah of the Messenger. A blessing indeed and major Kindness from Allah (subhanahu wata’ala)!

  14. Asssalamu alikum,very inspiring and beneficial article.i was feeling uncomfortable but after reading i am feeling full of positivity,inshallah to become strong in life we have to become companion of quran.inshalalh i will try to implement all these in my life.May allah give u success in world and here after.

    • Your article came in at the right time. I am in need of a motivation to stand up straight. Alhamdoolillah, after reading this article, I feel somewhat blessed. A first sign of recovery, tabarakaAllah. Looking forward to the next dose of medicine for a full recovery, in sha Allah. Awaiting here with sabr.
      BarakaAllah hu feek.

    • Walaykum AsSalam waRahmat Allah! Best thing to know really! Barak Allahu Feeki. May Allah help you and make you and all of us among those “Who listen to speech and follow the best of it. Those are the ones Allah has guided, and those are people of understanding.” [Qur’an: Chapter 39, Verse 18]

    • Sr. Nikhath, Walaykum AsSalam wa rahmat Allah wabarakatuhu! AlhamdulAllah who gave you this strength and positivity! I’m really thrilled and grateful to receive your comment. Ameen to your dua’, may He grant you the same and more, and may He make you among the honorable ranks of the companions of the Qur’an and make this a means of elevation of your status in Jannah! Ameen.

      Barak Allahu feekum , Nikhath and Noor.

  15. Masya Allah, beautiful and inspiring. Jazaakillahu khairan katsiran. May Allah SWT immensely reward you with all kinds of goodness.

  16. May Allha accepts all your efforts and gives high rank in paradise.

    I’ll try to change myself by reading this article.

    jazakallha for these beautiful article.


  17. May Allah bless you my sister.
    jazakallah khairan for such a Iman boosting article
    I am waiting for more post from your side

    • And May He bless you too, Sr. Salma, and nourish your Iman always! Insha’Allah part 3 of the series will be published soon.

  18. Subhanallah! A great article indeed. Thank you Dina for sharing the Islamic perspective on facing difficulties in life.

  19. Ma Shaa Allah, this is indeed an eye-opener, it really helps in getting through a confused situation, Alhamdulillah, Jazakallahu khair Dina

  20. May Allah, almighty, bless all of us, here and hereafter !

    An excellent article !
    I appreciate u !!

    Keep it up !!!

  21. After reading this I opened the Qur’an on a random page and I read ” Allah does not change what is in a nation unless they change what is in themselves” [13:11]
    subhanallah, Jazaki Allah kheir, very inspiring

    • Subhan Allah! Very beautiful reflection and experience! May Allah benefit you and raise your ranks through your reading and companionship of the Qur’an.

  22. This article is of tremendous helpful to me. Presently i have been Ill since the beginning of this year. But Allah SWA has been merciful and i have not lost hope because i believe it may be a way to overlook my sins. May Allah SWA reward this team abundantly

    • Barak Allahu Feek, Sister Lateefah! May Allah reward you for your patience, and count you among the noble ranks of the patient ones and bestow upon you His unlimited ease and gifts in this life and the next!

  23. Thank you all,
    Jazakallahu khayran to all writers and staff of productive Muslim these articles speak directly to me and fill in a need. May Allah SWT continue to bless you and us all.

    • Ameen! Barak Allahu Feeki for a generous dua’! AlhamdulAllah that you find what you need. May Allah help all of us always!

  24. asalaamualaykum sister Dina. Greetings from Malaysia. Awesome article that will in sha allah transform me into a better moslem. This article motivates me positively to the max. Made my day.

    • I’m so grateful to Allah for this! AlhamdulAllah! May Allah bless and accept your efforts and help us all better ourselves. Ameen.

  25. This is indid beautiful, touching & heart felt. May Allah widen ur knowledge scope . I love it & look 4word 2 more

    • Ameen! And May He widen your knowledge too and expand your chest and ease all your affairs for you!

    • You’re in my dua’. Jazaki Allah Khair, bismi. AlhamdulAllah who sent His help at the right time. May He be in your aid always, ya Rab.

  26. Jazakullah. We only have to look around us in society to see if people are managing and coping with life. The increase in mental health issues, rates of suicide as well as rise in alcohol drug addictions. It’s going out of control probably due to not coping with certain situations in lives usually very difficult scenarios which we often hear about in the news

    This article is very good reminder about how we must see and understand that ALLAH tests us through these trials and tribulations. But we have to show patience strength and trust in our almighty and one ALLAH. Very good read

    • True! Barak Allahu Feeki! We are here for one another. May Allah help us and help others through us. Ameen ya Rab!

  27. Alhamdulillah a very very resourseful article. I will deliver a khutbah on it. May Allah bestows His immense favors on you and grants you Jannat-ul Firdaws.

    • Barak Allahu feekum and May He accept your efforts and grant you sincerity and barakah and the best thawab!

    • You’re so welcome, Sr. Salma! Allah continues to prove to us that His timings are perfect! AlhamdulAllah.

  28. Assalaamu ‘ alaykoum, sister;

    I received this in my email 2 days ago and I didn’t read it then because firstly I was busy with school and secondly I quite honestly didn’t think I would need it anyways. But ALLAH’s Qadr has its way and yesterday I faced a pretty grave problem. To be honest I was on the verge of despair because it’s so serious and frightening. Surprisingly though, I think some good is supposed to be extracted from it and while I was checking my email just now, I saw this article and decided to see what it was about. Alhamdulillah, I was very touched and I feel hopefu nowl even though I don’t think anyone would be hopeful in the situation I am in. Jazaki ALLAHOU khayran, sister, may ALLAH SWT grant you Jannaatul Firdaws al a’la. Keep up your beneficial work.

    • Walaykum AsSalam wa Rahmat Allah waBarakatuhu, my dear sister Mariya,

      AlhamdulAllah for receiving your comment. Jazaki Allahu Khairan for sharing your precious experience. Subhan Allah, so much wisdom in it for all of us. It’s really touching and deserves pondering.

      But first and foremost I want to remind the two of us that there is always hope. And Allah ( subhanahu wa ta’ala) brought this article your way for a reason. It is a reminder to always know that there is hope and to never give up or give in to despair.

      Look how Generous Allah is:

      “Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, “Allah, the Exalted, has said: ‘O son of adam, I forgive you as long as you pray to Me and hope for My forgiveness, whatever sins you have committed. O son of ‘Adam, I do not care if your sins reach the height of the heaven, then you ask for my forgiveness, I would forgive you. O son of ‘Adam, if you come to Me with an earth load of sins, and meet Me associating nothing to Me, I would match it with an earthload of forgiveness.”‘
      [At- Tirmidhi].

      Subhan Allah, how can we lose hope after that my sister! Allah is so Generous!

      I also want us to remember this magnificent ayah:

      “Say, “O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of Allah. Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful.” [Qur’an: Chapter 39, Verse 53]

      So, AlhamdulAllah for the reminder and don’t give up and keep going strong and blessed with the aid of Allah everything will be okay and there is always ease after hardship. So long as we remember Allah and seek Him and ask of His Help and direct our hearts to Him, then there is always hope and khair and all sorts of goodness, insha’Allah.

      May Allah help and bless and protect you my sister!

  29. Assalamualikum….

    Thanx a lot for this wonderful and inspiring article. I really wanted it right now because my dad is in such a situation. In sha Allah …I will explain to him this article….please make dua for him.

    May Allah bless u.

    • Walaykum AsSalam waRahmat Allah Sr. Sameera,

      Masha’Allah and barak Allahu feeki for trying to share what benefitted you with your father. May Allah reward you for being so kind and merciful towards your father. AlhamdulAllah, it’s a blessing that Allah has gifted him with a kind daughter. May Allah ease your task and help you in what you’re trying to do. May Allah alleviate any pain and distress from you and your father and bring you ease and relief. Ameen.

  30. Wonderful MasyaAllah! This article really Allah send someone to advice me.
    Thank you sister DINA:)

    • AlhamdulAllah! Subhan Allah, Sr. Anisha! That’s very beautiful to know… how Allah helps us in many beautiful ways and strengthen us with one another. Barak Allahu Feeki always sister!

  31. This is a Great article. I hope more people will benefit from this and not lose their iman when faced with life’s challenges.

  32. its a truly practical and reflective article which is like reading my mind and attitudes towards problems .jazakum khair sister,really thank for productive Muslim blog!! waitin 4 the next part.

    • Jazak Allah Khair, Sr. Sophia! AlhamdulAllah that you found benefit. Insha’Allah Part 3 is coming very soon. Hope it can be of benefit.

      Barak Allahu Feekum.

    • Allah! AlhamdulAllah. This is amazing to know. Barak Allah Feek. May Allah always help us change for the better and develop all the qualities that bring peace to the heart and mind.

  33. Assalaamu alaikum dear sister. It was a healing to my heart as I was a bit depressed. May Allah azza wa jalla reward for your efforts. Jazakallahu khairan.

    • Walaykum AsSalam waRahmat Allah waBarakatugu, Shahiriya. I’m immensely grateful to Allah for bringing this healing to your heart. AlhamdulAllah. May Allah (subhanahu wa ta’la) cure your heart and ours from any burden or distress, and may He envelop our hearts in His mercy and shower us with His aid and guidance until we meet Him. Ameen.

  34. Assalamualaikum Sister Dina

    Thank you for writing an inspiring piece. I agree that problems are part of life. Life will have no meaning without it. Islam is the len that we should look though our problems with. Thank Allah for that!

    • Walaykum AsSalam waRahmat Allah waBarakatuhu. That’s very true. Jazak Allah Khair. Barak Allahu Feekum.

  35. Jazakallah all khair, I got a chance to look into it in a better way. Specially the example of football player made it easy to understand many concepts.
    May Allah bless you all
    Assalamu alaikum

    • Jazana w’yakum, Sr. Farah. AlhamdulAllah, your feedback is really much appreciated and helpful. Barak Allahu Feeki and Jazaki Allah all the kahir as well.

      Walaykum AsSalam waRahmat Allah.

  36. Thank you. I am not yet ready for part 3 because I have not finished with this article. Many things to learn, need to be read many times.May Allah reward you firdaus.

    • Masha’Allah, this is such a sweet and thoughtful thing to say. Barak Allah Feekum and may He benefit you always and facilitate your learning and enrich you with knowledge, wisdom and peace of mind and heart. You can save all three articles to your computer/device, and read them whenever you need , insha’Allah.

      May Allah reward you firdaus as well!

  37. aslm wrhmtlah wbrktu

    May Allah Ta’ala reward you abundantly. This is simply brilliant. Understand now that I shouldn’t give up, now or ever.

    May Allah Ta’ala reward and accept from us all.


    • Walaykum AsSalam waRahmt Allah waBarakatuhu, Sr. Ayesha!

      Yes, exactly. Well said, AlhamdulAllah. May Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) strengthen you always with knowledge and iman.

      Ameen to your dua!
      Barak Allahu feeki.

  38. Every phrase, every Hadith u quoted, every sentence of this article is so inspiring and motivational, Masha’allah! The more I kept scrolling and reading ur article, the more ur words, advises and tips continued to motivate me. U r a truly wonderful writer, Masha’allah! Jazaakallahu khayr dear :)

    • The beauty, kindness and generosity of your heartfelt comment truly brought so much happiness to my heart! Barak Allah Feeki, my sister Israa. May Allah [subaanahu wa ta’ala] continue to inspire you and make you a means of inspiration to everyone around you. Ameen.

      Jazaki Allah alf khair!

  39. Jazakumullah khair…my tears couldnt stop flowing as I read this. Had it in my inbox for a few days, and somehow read it tonight, just when I needed the motivation the most. Alhamdulillah, alhamdulillah, alhamdulillah. May Allah grant us all true contentment and peace. Ameen.

    • This really touched my heart. There is nothing more beautiful than the tears that are shed when one is reminded of Allah and feeling relief and contentment in His remembrance. Subhan Allah! And AlhamdulAllah a million times for bringing this your way at the right time! Subhan Allah! Barak Allahu Feeki, sister Nora! And Ameen to your beautiful dua’!

  40. I would like to sincerely thank you for you article;. It was a delight to read and truly helpful. Its exactly what I needed.

    Thank you. Jazakallah.

  41. Alhamdulillah, I have come to find these beautiful words, at precisely the right moment in my life. I have lived through what I have perceived to be many difficulties and hard times. I can not adequately with describe the immense relief I feel in knowing I have been blessed by Allah. What I saw as difficult is really just a test to make my me closer Allah! Alhamdulillah

    • AlhamdulAllah indeed! Allah’s Help comes at the best time and the lesson that you shared is actually a major gift and a blessing that brings so much light and peace into the heart. AlhamdulAllah.

  42. Beautiful article ,,, Well-organized ,,,,beneficial,,,,,changed my perspective towards lots of things especially my problem actually my blessing :D جزاك الله خيرا

    • What a beautiful spirit, Esraa! Masha’Allah! AlhamdulAllah that Allah (subahanu wa ta’ala) blessed you to feel this way. It’s a beautiful gift from Him. He is So Kind and Generous towards us, alhamdulAllah! May Allah shower you with His blessings and mercy and protection always. Ameen.

      جزانا وإياكم. بارك الله فيكم

  43. Jazakallah khair…this article helped me a lot to find peace and how to be patient….really thank u dear sister….May Allah blesss u for efforts…..

    • AlhamdulAllah. This is a gift from Allah! May Allah bless you and all our brothers and sisters, and bring your way all things that benefit and satisfy the heart and mind. Ameen.

  44. Subhan Allah ….I’m speechless….. this was nothing like the motivational articles I read before….It touched where it should…. Most practical tips and examples of Allah’s bountiful Mercy …… May you get Allah’s blessings for your fantastic article….

    • Sister Fahima, what a heartfelt comment! May Allah [swt] continue to bring your way everything that soothes your heart and gives peace to your mind, and may He reward you abundantly in this life and the next. Ameen.

      Barak Allahu feeki.

  45. Ma sha allah, it is a much needed article for me; so many things to learn; specially these sentences hit me on the spot since I often make this same mistake (giving my total focus on the current problem, forgetting all the other blessings I have) again and again: “try not to make the problem the center of your life. Get up and do something good, something positive”

  46. You said everything in the most perfect way. Helped me soo much Jazak Allaahu khairan dina may Allaah grant you every Barakah and goodness ameen.

  47. Calamity,Depression,Corruption and injustice is increasing among muslims.
    Unfortunately,Most of the Muslims fail in their test ,I fear i might also be one of them :(
    For those Muslims who are happy (Free from depression) you are truly Blessed .You are amonst the lucky people to be happy in this world.
    Stay blessed and happy

  48. Great article. Funny it is that many times we feel we are the only ones in this world with so many problems , but when I read others comments I felt we are in the same boat. Inspiring article

  49. Ma Sha Allah,thank you so much for this wonderful piece.Just when i have been drowning in self pity and feeling unlucky in some areas of my life ,this article came as a guide and an eye opener for me.Just reading it, makes me feel so blessed and specially created by Allah.Alhamdulillah! May Allah bless you for this!! Allah Hafiz. Am going to introduce my other friends here in Nigeria to subscribe to productive Muslim insha Allah.

  50. AssalmuAlaikum Sr,
    This article helped me to view myself and my issues differently than before. I’m grateful for this chance Alhamdulillah, it’s motivating Mashallah. Thank you for your share, Jazaki Allah Kair. May Allah elevates you in dunya and akhira.

  51. This is my first time to visit this link. But seriouly, i didn’t regret it at all. Its like Allah direct me to this link to boost my imaan. This article is really inspiring, may Allah grant u with more knowledge sist Dina.

  52. Maa Shaa Allah! I feel more at ease after reading this beautiful article. I pray may Allah (SWT) increase you more in knowledge. Jazaki -llahu Khoyroy. Maa Sallam.

  53. Assalamualaikom and jazakallahu khairan sister. Just felt like someone was talking to me there, comforting me while I needed it. Subhan’allah. Something that made fell better. Alhamdulillah.
    Again jazakallahu khair for the sincere heartfelt words your sister needed at this moment of emotional negativity, to help her try and change her frame of mind and perspective and encourage positivity of the mind insha’Allah.. May Allah swt bless you sis x

    • Walaykum Asalam wa Rahmat Allah, my dearest sister,

      All praise is due to Allah for this. I’m truly grateful that Allah sent you what you need to feel better. It only shows how close He is to us, even when we think we’re far. He is always there with us, taking care of us, and helping us… He is our Merciful Creator. AlhamdulAllah.

      May Allah heal you and heal your heart from any worry or distress or negativity, and may He guide you to the best of paths and the best in this world and the next. Ameen. :)

  54. One of The best remedy at such times is to keep chanting the verse of Quran “INNA LILLAHI VA INNA ILAIHI RAJI’OON” and add ALLA HUMMA AJIRNA FEE MUSIBATI VAKHLIFLEE KHAIRAM MINHA. As per one prophetic narration Allah Ta’la will compensate him with better than what he has lost

  55. JazakAllah khayr for this very inspiring article. In the words of Reinhold Niebuhr, “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.” Ameen.

  56. This was such a great read! May the almighty bless the writer editor and the entire team at Productivemuslim. You guys have been a great source of inspiration and knowledge for me this Ramadan! This series has helped me to see trials,blessings and even my purpose from a different angle.. May Allah make us part of the privileged few to make Al Janat Firdaus